And reading about Zane’s own sexual adventures is like getting invited to Sunday brunch by your wittiest, sluttiest, funniest friend and getting to listen to him recount his crazy weekend. He and his work have appeared in outlets such as the New York Times, Vice, GQ, Rolling Stone, The Advocate, The Tamron Hall Show, and Nightline. There is an entire chapter discussing how STIs are no big deal and that while they aren't fun they ought not to be stigmatized.

Zachary Zane spoke about things that I don’t see quite often, or if I do, it tends to leave a sour taste in my mouth. This allows us to start talking openly about our desires with our partners, which leads to happier, healthier, and more satisfying relationships. His honest approach is a welcome reprieve from the messages of our youth and his self-exploration not only encourages but enables us to do our own.Not only is this an incredibly presumptuous and condescending statement towards quite a complex transition in identity, it’s also inherently erasure of bisexuality as a “palatable stepping stone”.

Thanks to Zach’s journey and its fraysexual, polyamorous endpoint we bisexual men - including those in monogamous long-terms relationships like me - can find company and validation and not the all-too-common AA-type sharing he once attended in Boston 😱. His therapist reassured him that there was nothing bad about picturing people naked, and once he stops thinking it’s bad, he’ll be able to stop dwelling on them. I think you should use everything God gave you to have fun and live life and sell your books and create partners.It’s one of those calculated slutty risks that I’ve analyzed, and the decision that I’ve come to, while controversial, is mine […] If (or when) we start to see major outbreaks of antibiotic-resistant gonorrhea, I’ll start wrapping it up, but until then, I’m going to keep raw-dogging it. In fact, the only part I didn't love was that it read quite a lot like a self-help book (when a quote at the beginning implied it wasn't trying to be that) and that's not really for me.