The exasperated girlfriend who has had enough of your lazing about and decides to use your own belt to teach you a lesson Safewords give subs control over all play. Despite subs’ nominal subservience, the core irony of BDSM play is that the subs are always in charge, thanks to safe words. If subs feel uneasy, they might say “yellow light,” meaning they’d like to stay in role but discuss their ambivalence. If subs feel threatened, they might say “red light.” Role-playing ends. The action stops. And participants reconsider their agreements.

Good! Now let’s see how much you enjoy the next stage. Do you know how to cook, or do I need to teach you?"I prefer to focus on discipline to make our FLR work smoothly. As a happily married couple, our FLR provides the framework for our daily lives. As the leader it falls on me to make sure that we don’t stray from the discipline rules that make it work successfully. Alice may moan at times but fully accepts that in the end that I’m right to operate it the way I do. If this were a real life scenario do you think that the Wardress would consider giving you a warm-up? Or a safe word perhaps? Maybe she would stop if she thought the punishment was too harsh? I don't think so - and that's just how this session works. No warm-up, no safe word and once you've been sentenced that's what you're going to receive. You will be led into the punishment room to receive your sentence. You will not be allowed to speak unless spoken to; you will keep your head bowed at all times. Your clothing will be removed and you will be given prison uniform to wear during your stay. You will then be strapped into the bench or whipping frame and given a minute to collect your thoughts and for silent prayer. While you ponder your fate I shall practice my swing with either cane or whip.

Whether it’s mowing the lawn or arranging an interesting and exciting date night, there comes a time when the fact that it is still not done becomes the issue.

10. Bilboes

I am a mature professional dominatrix and disciplinarian. I only dominate those I deem worthy enough of my time and attention. I am very experienced in the art of corporal punishment and have developed outstanding skills with the cane. Alternatively you may get something like “isn’t that a bit harsh, could you (insert alternative punishment here) instead as I have been planning to….” Oh yes, Ma’am!" I said, smiling and thinking to myself about being introduced to her as Mistress Stella’s puppy. "How are you today, Mistress?" I inquired of Mistress Aurora.

As a Disciplinarian I have a very specific array of traditional implements. Obviously my bare hand for an Over The Knee spanking comes first – but the other implements that I use include leather school straps, the infamous Lochgelly tawse, woooden hairbrushes (though this is more common as Aunty than Headmistress) and most of all the cane.

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But Mistress, it wasn’t intentional…and I didn’t realize I was doing something wrong. I won’t do it again," I said, hoping she would relent about whatever punishment she had in mind. They can’t be dealt with at face value because you have no evidence of the lie or legitimacy of the excuse. In my practice – the *purpose* of CP is very different between these two classic archetypes – as Headmistress the administration of punishment is specifically for the benefit of the “naughty boy”– the cane may sting but I am confident that it will greatly benefit the recipient in terms of improved behaviour, demeanour and results. I understand the need for a firm hand and am not afraid to administer strict discipline when needed. Typical of these excuses are things like ‘my battery died on my phone– I didn’t see your message’ or ‘my boss asked me to work late, I didn’t get time to do it’.