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The giant central form in this painting is one
of Dalí’s signature, flaccid self-portraits, seen most famously in the foreground of

Now I know that aim was destined to fail – you can’t separate sex from feelings without losing a vital ingredient. After all – what is eros? We shouldn’t be controlled by our moods and emotions, but at the same time they must never be ignored. And it certainly isn’t wise to seek to transcend all inhibitions – some of them are there for a good reason!

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Erotica is a user-friendly aid that you can tailor to fit your specific sexual wants and needs. Whether focusing on relationship communication, arousal, or new fantasy material, with erotica in your sexuality toolbox, you can begin to tap into a stronger mind-body connection with yourself and/or partner(s). Inspiration still comes from the same place, but the emphasis has shifted. Over the last fifteen years I have been less concerned with drawing explicit scenes. Whips, pain and severity no longer feature so strongly in my work, perhaps because my own personal fantasies have been well and truly satisfied. ‘Green Lady’ Bodyscape

over a period of time, and that the project evolved from one-off prints into an open-ended group with a common format.Reflecting on the commercial world of erotic films in the light of these realisations, I can now see that whenever something becomes a lucrative industry it automatically starts imposing a formula and then the creativity and enjoyment goes out of it. The whole business becomes a sort of factory, churning out more of the same. Besides, I was being naive to imagine that anything involving real sex could possibly be an art form. We are making impossible demands on actors, expecting them to be convincing in a role at the same time as ‘performing’ sex for real. This is a misuse of the sex drive, and it goes against the natural inclinations of most human beings, so they are bound to feel used over time. I recall that hilarious scene in Woody Allen’s film ‘Sleeper’, where Diane Keaton invites him into the Orgasmatron to ‘perform’ sex with her. What could be more off-putting? Every bid submitted is treated as a maximum bid. You should always bid the maximum you are willing to Lucrezia Borgia, the daughter of Pope Alexander VI, is given particular attention. Lucrezia is accused of is committing incest with her brother Cesare, and with her father, but it is commonly believed that that was a slander by her first husband, Giovanni Sforza, whom she married in 1493. The marriage was a political one, helping Alexander forge powerful ties with his uncle, the Duke of Milan, and she was just thirteen while Giovanni was twenty-six. Enemies of the influential family lapped up the incest stories, and rumours about Lucrezia’s general sexual behaviour were rife. Perhaps I had been inclined to suppress my feelings in the pursuit of adventure. The other day I came across an old interview I did in the eighties. The young me said, ‘I was consciously trying to discover what sex was when it is completely separated from love’. How odd that sounds! No doubt it was a rebellion against the prevailing view that no decent woman could possibly enter into a sexual liaison unless she was deeply in love. This didn’t mean I wasn’t looking for love – everybody needs love – but I wanted to learn to make the distinction in my relationships between lust and love. ‘Floating Lovers’

On Saturday at 2pm John will be exploring the significance and importance of transgressive art, from sado-masochism and the relationship of pain and sex, all the way to the contentious issue of children and sex. With examples from the illustrators of de Sade and Sacher-Masoch, to artists today who are exploring the boundaries of what is ‘acceptable’, this presentation explores why art is such an important medium for the examination of the dark side of the world of eroticism. After all, if imagination isn’t allowed free rein in art it will tend to find more dangerous channels of expression. Here’s how reading erotica can light new fires in you, stoking your wants and desires. THE BODY-MIND CONNECTION.Her reputation as a poisoner arose from several mysterious deaths that occurred around the Borgia family, including her own brother, Juan. It was rumoured she wore a hollow ring, containing poison, which she would deploy at parties. in which he emphasizes and repeats the words “very hard,” perhaps with the intention of increasing the eroticism of the piece. How erotic, or not, the experience may be, though, is of course entirely down to the individual participant. In the case of multiple bidders placing the same maximum bid, the first person to place the maximum